THE UPGRADE

The #1 monthly membership for women wanting to start and/or scale a business.

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3 MEMBERSHIP TIERS

BRONZE

Perfect for the woman ready to build solid foundations. Inside Bronze, you’ll unlock The Identity Upgrade System - a step-by-step course designed to help you change your personality so you can change your reality. You’ll adopt the mindset and develop the skillset that set you up for unapologetic success in business, supported by a fully-stocked resource library, private community, and monthly group coaching call.

SILVER

Designed for the woman ready to scale faster with deeper support. Silver includes everything in Bronze, plus weekly coaching calls and a monthly clearing session - in these, I use a modality called ThetaHealing® to reprogram your subconscious mind and break through the hidden blocks keeping you stuck. You’ll be guided through both strategic and energetic upgrades to help you expand with confidence and flow.

GOLD

The most powerful and transformative level inside The Upgrade. Gold includes everything in Bronze and Silver, plus weekly energetic clearing sessions and a monthly hypnotherapy experience - so we can better access your beliefs and habits, reprogram negative patterns, and create lasting change. In this tier, we pay special attention to the nervous system - helping you regulate, integrate, and embody success on every level.

BECOME THE PERSON

WHO GETS THE RESULTS

Some people, when setting out to start or scale their business, focus on their skillset only - learning how to create and market their products and services, but never addressing the beliefs and behaviors that sabotage their success.

Others focus on mindset only - journaling, meditating, visualizing - but never taking the practical, tangible action required to bring those visions to life.

The truth is, if you want to quantum leap your impact and income, you need a blend of both. You need to upgrade your ways of being and doing to become the kind of person who gets the sort of results she desires.

But as an old soul, you’ve probably noticed that traditional business advice doesn’t work for you, haven’t you?

That’s because you incarnated with a specific set of challenges designed to prepare you (not punish you) for your big-ass purpose here on planet Earth - challenges most mentors haven’t faced themselves, let alone learned to guide others through.

What’s more, you’ve been blessed with a very particular kind of gift - you’re a healer, coach, therapist, creative, visionary, witch, or bad bitch - and most people have no idea how to help you monetize that kind of mission.

That’s where The Upgrade comes in. It’s not just another membership - it’s a multidimensional ecosystem for old souls ready to cash in on their calling, with bespoke support that meets you at every level of your growth - in the 3D and the 5D.

THE IDENTITY UPGRADE SYSTEM®

PHASE 1: Survival Self > Authentic Self

If you've ever felt like you were chasing goals that didn't quite fit - or living a life that looks good on the outside but feels empty on the inside - this phase will show you why.

Old souls are born into intense families, cultures, and societies. To stay safe, they learn to survive by becoming someone else: the caretaker, the overachiever, the peacekeeper, the good girl.

These roles help you gain approval and avoid abandonment - but they also become a mask. A costume. A character you've been playing for so long that you've forgotten who you actually are.

In this phase, we help you unlearn those survival identities and reconnect with your authentic self. We explore the three core survival experiences most old souls face - chronic health issues, toxic relationships, and addiction - and show you how they've been unconsciously protecting you from being seen, from stepping into your power, and from becoming the version of you who gets everything she wants.

This isn't about endlessly digging into your trauma or analyzing your wounds to death. It's about moving from fixation to freedom. From survival to soul alignment. From pain to purpose.

You'll learn how to stop abandoning yourself, break free from codependent patterns, and rewire your subconscious so you can start creating a business and life that's truly yours.

You don't have to become someone new - you just have to remember who you were before the world told you who to be.
This is the phase where you finally come home to yourself.

PHASE 2: Authentic Self > CEO Self

You've reconnected with who you are. Now it's time to become the woman who leads.

In this phase, you'll step into your CEO Self - not just energetically, but strategically. Because it's not enough to feel like a CEO. You need to think and act like one too.

Everyone loves to say success comes from adopting traits like resilience, persistence, obsession, and a little bit of delusion (and yes, you'll strengthen those here). But let's be real: mindset without skillset won't get you far.

That's why this phase is where we arm you with the actual business strategy and structure you need to succeed. You'll get crystal-clear clarity on:

  • âś… Your Purpose - what lights you up
  • ✅ Your Problem - what you're uniquely here to solve
  • ✅ Your Process - how you take people from pain to pleasure 
  • ✅ Your Product - what you're selling (and how it scales)
  • ✅ Your Pricing - how to charge based on value, not self-worth 
  • ✅ Your Positioning - how to stand out as a sought-after specialist
  • ✅ Your Promotion - how to show up and sell on social media like a pro

We'll also help you heal the visibility wounds that are keeping you stuck in the shadows - so you can finally be seen as the expert you already are.

This is where your mission gets monetized.
This is where you stop winging it - and start building with intention.
This is where you become the CEO of your business, your brand, and your life.

PHASE 3: CEO Self > Unapologetically Successful Self

You didn't build your business just to be busy. You built it for freedom. Expansion. Fulfilment.

In this phase, we help you claim all of it - by upgrading your success thermostat and stepping into the fullest, boldest expression of who you came here to be.

You'll start dreaming bigger, aiming higher, and 10x'ing your goals - not just in business, but in every area of your life.

We'll help you clear the upper-limit beliefs that are keeping your desires small, and work through the four hidden fears that keep high-achieving women stuck: Overwhelm, Sacrifice, Loss, and Hate.

Then, we'll shift you from theory to action - with massive, unapologetic moves that align your energy with your next-level outcomes.

But here's the real flex: unapologetic success isn't just about income. It's about feeling rich in every domain of your life.

Your unapologetically successful self is:

  • đź’¸ Rich in Purpose & Meaning - because your work creates real change
  • 💸 Rich in Love - because you've stopped settling and started receiving
  • 💸 Rich in Health & Wellbeing - because you're nourished, not just functional
  • 💸 Rich in Friends & Family - because you're surrounded by people who lift you
  • 💸 Rich in Fun & Recreation - because pleasure isn't a reward, it's a rhythm
  • 💸 Rich in Finances - because money flows when you live in alignment

This phase is about designing your life to match your energy.
Creating a reality you don't need a break from.
Becoming the woman who gets to have everything - without apology.

THE TRANSFORMATION:

SURVIVAL SELF > AUTHENTIC SELF
  • Break free from survival roles like the caretaker, overachiever, peacekeeper, or good girl, releasing old codependent patterns that once kept you safe but now keep you small
  • Dissolve behaviors like comparisonitis, impostor syndrome, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and procrastination so you can finally move forward with clarity and self-trust
  • Reprogram your subconscious mind to overcome chronic health issues, toxic relationships, or addictions that have been holding you back
  • Navigate the quantum crumble - the breakdowns that always precede breakthroughs - and move through the void between who you were and who you’re becoming
  • Reconnect with your essential self instead of your social self, remembering who you truly are and what you came here to do
AUTHENTIC SELF > CEO SELF
  • Turn your purpose into a profitable business by mastering the foundational elements of entrepreneurship, including your problem, process, product, pricing, and positioning
  • Build a marketing strategy that works - from platform selection and content consistency to creating conversion-focused messaging that moves people to action
  • Heal visibility wounds so you can show up fully, communicate clearly, and be recognized as the expert you already are
  • Embody the traits of highly successful CEOs - resilience, persistence, delusion, and obsession - so you can lead with conviction and authority
  • Develop a powerful CEO identity that balances intuition with execution, allowing you to make confident decisions, take decisive action, and scale with purpose
CEO SELF > UNAPOLOGETICALLY SUCCESSFUL SELF
  • Raise your internal success thermostat to expand your capacity to have and hold more in every area of your life
  • Clear the hidden fears that limit your growth - like the fear of overwhelm, sacrifice, loss, or hate - so nothing stands between you and your next level
  • Take massive, unapologetic action by dreaming bigger, aiming higher, and making bold moves that align your energy with your goals
  • Blend practicality and spirituality to supercharge your results, grounding your strategy in energetics and your energetics in structure
  • Experience unapologetic success across every domain of your life - purpose, health, love, finances, relationships, and recreation - and finally have it all without apology

THE PROOF IS IN THE PUDDING

SUCCESS STORIES

ROBYN

“Since joining, I’ve signed dream clients, booked podcasts, landed features, and burned down a business that no longer fit - all while healing chronic pain, stepping into visibility, and rewriting my identity from the inside out. Margot’s clarity, strategy, and depth helped me move at the speed of my vision without the hustle or self-doubt.”

ALEXANDRA

“I officially launched my business as a Death Doula and Reiki Practitioner after leaving my full-time hospice nursing career to follow the inner calling I’d been hearing for years. It’s scary and thrilling all at once - but I finally feel seen, heard, and aligned with the path I’m meant to walk.”

MARGARET

“Since joining The Upgrade, people keep telling me I’m glowing - and I’ve finally given myself permission to own my Chosen Oneness and shine. I even got recognized in public by someone who’s been following my YouTube prayers for over a year, reminding me that showing up as my full self is part of the mission.”

WHAT’S UP!

I'M MARGOT MILLER

As a therapeutic coach to female entrepreneurs and wantrepreneurs, I’ve learned that the secret to unapologetic success is an identity upgrade - because upgrading your identity means changing how you think and how you act. It means developing a new mindset and a new skillset.

With a Bachelor’s in Psychology, a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy, 22 coaching certifications, qualifications in ThetaHealing® and hypnotherapy, and ongoing PhD studies in Business Psychology - it’s safe to say I know my stuff.

During my studies, I developed The Identity Upgrade System® - a proprietary method designed to help you become the kind of woman who gets the kind of results she wants. This system is taught right here, inside this membership, making the process both affordable and accessible to most.

With 17+ years of experience, I’ve impacted over 50,000 individuals across industries including entertainment and politics. My methods have transformed the lives of celebrities - from actors to comedians - as well as the girls next door. My work has reached over 100 million views online and built a trusted global community of nearly 600,000.

I’ve been honored with five Stevie Awards, including:

  • 🏆 Best Business Influencer of the Year

    🏆 Most Innovative TikTok Channel

    🏆 Most Innovative Instagram Feed by or for Women

    🏆 Thought Leader of the Year - Consumer Services

    🏆 Achievement in Diversity & Inclusion

But more than the accolades, what drives me is seeing women shed the roles they were cast in - and step into the identity they were born for.

Now, it’s your turn.

WHY THIS

+ WHY NOW?

For years, I struggled to figure out who I was - never mind what I was here to do.
Chronic illness, toxic relationships, and addiction kept me trapped in survival mode, disconnected from my authentic self and unsure of my purpose.

When I finally reconnected with the truth of who I was, everything began to change. I had a business idea and even signed a few clients through word of mouth - but I didn’t know how to scale what I’d started. I lacked the CEO mindset and skillset I needed to succeed, and for a long time, I stayed stuck there too.

Eventually, I cracked the code. I blew up my business, grew my followers and my dollars, and built a brand that’s visible AF - in magazines, on billboards, and across every platform. But the real win? I did it without burning out. I stopped sacrificing health for wealth or love for work. I built the systems, structures, and teams that allow me to run a freedom-based business and live a life that’s genuinely fulfilling.

Today, I live in my dream home, drive my dream car, and have a circle of girlfriends who lift me higher. I date high-value men who meet me at my level. And I’m here to show you that it doesn’t have to take as long or be as hard as it was for me.

Inside The Upgrade, I teach the exact tools and techniques that helped me go from hiding in the shadows - scared to be seen - to building a magnetic, wildly successful brand that shines on every stage.

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IF YOU WANT TO:

  • Create products and services that help you profit from the purpose you were put on this planet to pursue
  • Make more money than you ever have before - because the universe wants to reward you for the difference you’re making in the world
  • Show up on social media confidently and consistently to build a community of dream clients who can’t wait to work with yo
  • Attract opportunities to share your message as a thought leader - on podcasts, panels, and maybe even the TEDx stage
  • Become a household name - getting featured in major publications, appearing on national television, and finally receiving recognition for all that you are and all that you do
  • Scale what you’ve started without sacrificing your health for your wealth or your love life for your work life - no trade-offs
  • Feel more satisfied and fulfilled than you thought was humanly possible - because you’re finally living life for you, not for everyone else
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COMMUNITY LOVE

TAKE A PEEK INTO OUR MEMBERS’ EXPERIENCES:

PAY A LITTLE.

GET A LOT.

TIER 1: BRONZE

$

111

PER MONTH
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  • Step-By-Step Course
  • Fully-Stocked Resource Library
  • Online Community
  • Monthly Coaching Call
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TIER 2: SILVER

$

333

FOR VIPS

PER MONTH
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  • Everything you get in Tier 1

PLUS

  • Weekly Coaching Calls
  • Monthly Energy Clearing Session
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TIER 3: GOLD

$

555

FOR VVIPS

PER MONTH
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  • Everything you get in Tier 1 + Tier 2

PLUS

  • Weekly Energy Clearing Sessions
  • Monthly Hypnotherapy Experience
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PEEK INSIDE THE PROGRAM

When you join the membership, you'll be instantly directed to our user-friendly portal, where the course, content, coaching, and community are all housed in one place. Accessible on both desktop and mobile devices, including iOS and Android, the platform ensures you can engage with the materials and interact with the other members anytime, anywhere - yep, even when you’re on your hot girl walk!

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WHAT YOU RECEIVE IN TIER 1:

A STEP-BY-STEP COURSE

Unlock access to an exclusive course, The Identity Upgrade System®, where you’ll learn my full proprietary framework for unapologetic success. Module-by-module, lesson-by-lesson, it guides you through the three phases of self and shows you how to shift your identity so you can start creating the results you desire and deserve.

A FULLY-STOCKED RESOURCE LIBRARY

Benefit from a resource library fully stocked with guided meditations, journaling prompts, video workshops, fillable workbooks, cheat sheets, checklists, and more to help you implement and integrate all you learn. These are all immediately available upon sign-up, and you'll receive new content drops month after month.

A PRIVATE COMMUNITY

Get 24/7 support from a private community of like-minded women right inside the membership. Inside, you’ll find dedicated circles for introductions, celebrations, suggestions, and support with every phase of the course and content. You’ll also have direct access to my team (including my right hand!) plus a dedicated Help Desk where we handle customer service with love.

A MONTHLY COACHING CALL

Participate in monthly group calls where you’ll have the opportunity to sit in the hot seat and receive personalized mindset and skillset coaching from me, Margot Miller. Whether you need help shifting a belief or tightening your business strategy, I’ve got you. All calls are recorded and uploaded to the membership platform, so you’ll never miss a breakthrough.
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WHAT YOU RECEIVE IN TIER 2:
  • EVERYTHING YOU GET IN TIER 1
    You’ll receive full access to everything included in Tier 1 - The Identity Upgrade System® course, the fully-stocked resource library, the private community, and the monthly group coaching call - giving you the foundational tools and teachings to start building real momentum before stepping into deeper support.
  • PLUS WEEKLY COACHING CALLS
    As a Silver member, you’ll get access to weekly coaching calls with me - offering more support than in Tier 1. Because Silver is intentionally capped, these sessions are intimate and high-touch, meaning you’ll get coached more often and are far more likely to sit in the hot seat with me directly. Each week, we’ll work on both mindset and skillset - from niche and ideal client clarity, positioning, and messaging to structuring your offer suite, refining your client journey, and improving your lead generation and conversion. Alongside strategy, we’ll also address the beliefs and habits that hold you back, helping you scale easier and faster.
  • PLUS A MONTHLY ENERGY CLEARING SESSION
    Each month, you’ll join a live energy clearing session where I use ThetaHealing® to help you identify and release the subconscious beliefs keeping you stuck. Together, we’ll reprogram the blocks held at the core, genetic, historical, and soul levels - clearing the patterns that limit your capacity to receive, create, and lead. This isn’t fluffy mindset work - it’s energetic surgery - designed to help you step into your next level of success with less friction and resistance.
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WHAT YOU RECEIVE IN TIER 3:
  • EVERYTHING YOU GET IN TIER 1

    You’ll receive full access to everything included in Tier 1 - The Identity Upgrade System® course, the fully-stocked resource library, the private community, and the monthly group coaching call - giving you the foundational tools and teachings to start building real momentum before stepping into deeper support.

  • EVERYTHING YOU GET IN TIER 2
    You’ll also receive everything inside Tier 2 - weekly coaching calls for personalized mindset and skillset development, and monthly energetic clearing sessions using ThetaHealing® to remove the subconscious blocks keeping you stuck. This is where your strategy and energy start working together to accelerate your results and amplify your growth.
  • PLUS WEEKLY ENERGY CLEARING SESSIONS
    In Gold, we take the energetic work even deeper with weekly ThetaHealing® sessions designed for rapid transformation. Each session is an opportunity to dive into your psyche, identifying and releasing the barriers that keep you from moving forward. First, I’ll guide you into a meditative theta brainwave state - where your subconscious mind becomes accessible. From there, I use intuitive questioning and muscle testing to uncover the limiting beliefs running the show beneath the surface - and clear them for you in real time. I’ll then download new, empowering beliefs to reprogram your energy for success. These sessions keep you aligned week after week, so your inner world evolves in step with the results you’re creating externally.
  • PLUS A MONTHLY HYPNOTHERAPY EXPERIENCE
    Old souls have harder paths because they have higher callings - and that means their bodies often carry the residue of everything they’ve survived. That’s why I’ve included a monthly hypnotherapy experience to help you process and release the trauma and tension stored in your body that’s been holding you back from taking the kind of action that creates real success. During each session, I’ll guide you into a gentle, trance-like state where your subconscious mind and body begin to communicate. Through somatic awareness and subconscious reprogramming, we’ll regulate your nervous system and bring it out of chronic fight-or-flight - so you can feel grounded, calm, and safe to chase down your dreams.
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COMMUNITY LOVE

TAKE A PEEK INTO OUR MEMBERS’ EXPERIENCES:

PAY A LITTLE.

GET A LOT.

TIER 1: BRONZE

$

111

PER MONTH
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  • Step-By-Step Course
  • Fully-Stocked Resource Library
  • Online Community
  • Monthly Coaching Call
JOIN TIER 1 >>

TIER 2: SILVER

$

333

FOR VIPS

PER MONTH
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  • Everything you get in Tier 1

PLUS

  • Weekly Coaching Calls
  • Monthly Energy Clearing Session
JOIN TIER 2 >>

TIER 3: GOLD

$

555

FOR VVIPS

PER MONTH
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  • Everything you get in Tier 1 + Tier 2

PLUS

  • Weekly Energy Clearing Sessions
  • Monthly Hypnotherapy Experience
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