THE UPGRADE

The #1 monthly membership for women wanting to start and/or scale a business.

THE IDENTITY UPGRADE SYSTEM®

SURVIVAL SELF > AUTHENTIC SELF

This is where you stop performing and start remembering who you are. You’ll unlearn the survival roles - the good girl, the overachiever, the caretaker - and reconnect with the woman beneath them. No endless trauma loops. Just powerful identity work that moves you from self-abandonment to self-trust, from coping to consciously creating. This is where you come home to yourself.

AUTHENTIC SELF > CEO SELF

Now that you know who you are, it’s time to lead. In this phase, you adopt the mindset and the skillset of a true CEO. You’ll clarify your purpose, define your positioning, refine your offers, price for value, and learn how to promote with confidence. This is where your mission becomes monetised - and your business becomes intentional. This is where you stop dabbling and start building.

CEO SELF > UNAPOLOGETICALLY SUCCESSFUL SELF

You didn’t build a business to stay small. Here, you raise your success thermostat, clear upper-limit fears, and expand into wealth across every domain - purpose, love, health, joy, and money. This is about bold moves, bigger visions, and a life designed to match your fullest expression. This is where you claim it all - without apology.

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  • Online Community
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  • Everything you get in Tier 1

PLUS

  • ~2 MONTHS FREE
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BECOME THE PERSON

WHO GETS THE RESULTS

Some people, when setting out to start or scale their business, focus on their skillset only - learning how to create and market their products and services, but never addressing the beliefs and behaviors that stand in the way of your success.

Others focus on mindset only - journaling, meditating, visualizing - but never taking the practical, tangible action required to bring those visions to life.

The truth is, if you want to quantum leap your impact and income, you need a blend of both. You need to upgrade your ways of being and doing to become the kind of person who gets the sort of results she desires.

But as an old soul, you’ve probably noticed that traditional business advice doesn’t work for you, haven’t you?

That’s because you incarnated with a specific set of challenges designed to prepare you (not punish you) for your big-ass purpose here on planet Earth - challenges most mentors haven’t faced themselves, let alone learned to guide others through.

What’s more, you’ve been blessed with a very particular kind of gift - you’re a healer, coach, therapist, creative, visionary, witch, or bad bitch - and most people have no idea how to help you monetize that kind of mission.

That’s where The Upgrade comes in. It’s not just another membership - it’s a multidimensional ecosystem for old souls ready to cash in on their calling, with bespoke support that meets you at every level of your growth - in the 3D and the 5D.

THE TRANSFORMATION:

SURVIVAL SELF > AUTHENTIC SELF
  • Break free from survival roles like the caretaker, overachiever, peacekeeper, or good girl, releasing old codependent patterns that once kept you safe but now keep you small
  • Dissolve behaviors like comparisonitis, impostor syndrome, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and procrastination so you can finally move forward with clarity and self-trust
  • Reprogram your subconscious mind to overcome chronic health issues, toxic relationships, or addictions that have been holding you back
  • Navigate the quantum crumble - the breakdowns that always precede breakthroughs - and move through the void between who you were and who you’re becoming
  • Reconnect with your essential self instead of your social self, remembering who you truly are and what you came here to do
AUTHENTIC SELF > CEO SELF
  • Turn your purpose into a profitable business by mastering the foundational elements of entrepreneurship, including your problem, process, product, pricing, and positioning
  • Build a marketing strategy that works - from platform selection and content consistency to creating conversion-focused messaging that moves people to action
  • Heal visibility wounds so you can show up fully, communicate clearly, and be recognized as the expert you already are
  • Embody the traits of highly successful CEOs - resilience, persistence, delusion, and obsession - so you can lead with conviction and authority
  • Develop a powerful CEO identity that balances intuition with execution, allowing you to make confident decisions, take decisive action, and scale with purpose
CEO SELF > UNAPOLOGETICALLY SUCCESSFUL SELF
  • Raise your internal success thermostat to expand your capacity to have and hold more in every area of your life
  • Clear the hidden fears that limit your growth - like the fear of overwhelm, sacrifice, loss, or hate - so nothing stands between you and your next level
  • Take massive, unapologetic action by dreaming bigger, aiming higher, and making bold moves that align your energy with your goals
  • Blend practicality and spirituality to supercharge your results, grounding your strategy in energetics and your energetics in structure
  • Experience unapologetic success across every domain of your life - purpose, health, love, finances, relationships, and recreation - and finally have it all without apology

THE PROOF IS IN THE PUDDING

SUCCESS STORIES

ALANA

"On Day 1, I binged all of the videos. By Day 2, I was already diving into the Human Design, Astrology, and Numerology resources - and everything just started making sense. For the first time in 52 years, I realized that all the things I’d been told were ‘wrong’ with me - the not fitting in, being the family scapegoat, seeing what others don’t - weren’t signs that I was broken. They were literally written in the stars.

My charts showed me that my so-called ‘differences’ are actually the keys to my purpose. I finally felt seen, heard, and validated. The fear of visibility just disappeared, and I felt this deep sense of freedom knowing I’m designed exactly as I’m meant to be. [...]

And the best part? The shifts started showing up right away. I signed a new client at my new rate - I increased my 6-month 1:1 container by $3,000, and she didn’t even flinch. She immediately said yes! ❤️🎉💃🏻

It’s wild to see how fast things change when you stop trying to fix yourself and start working with who you really are."

AMY

"I just sold my first paid in full yearly membership for my functional medicine clinic - $3,700! 🎉 I’m transitioning from one-on-one patient sessions every hour into a more scalable model with group visits and memberships, and I’ve even hired an amazing team of contractors to support this next phase. It feels incredible to see the vision expanding and the structure finally taking shape."

CHRISTIN

"I had struggled to grow my business for a long time, but two weeks ago I took a bold step and started holding live group healing events. The first had six people - and from that, four 1:1 clients came just from me posting about it. The second had four people, and the next only one... but I showed up anyway. That one person became my newest mentorship client and paid in cash.

Now I’m celebrating my biggest month in business yet - and my largest package sold with ease! [...] The month isn’t even over, and I can feel my first 10k month in my healing business on the horizon. I’m truly excited for what’s to come!"

JESTIRA

"I’m celebrating how far I’ve come over the last few months! I’m about to soft launch my new speakeasy-style apothecary space - it’s looking beautiful and exactly how I envisioned it. My business cards are printed, my product packaging is finally complete and ordered, and I’m preparing to host events and rent the space to other herbalists for workshops. It feels like everything is finally coming together at once, and I couldn’t be more excited!"

KACEY

"This past week, I decided to go all in on a new business venture in the travel industry - and I got 4 sales in my very first week! I honestly didn’t expect one of my best friends and mentors to want to jump on board, but they did. Thanks to shifting my energy and doing the deep work, I’m allowing my authentic, best self to shine through more than ever!"

 
 
KATHRYN

"This week has been full of momentum! I launched my first digital course after months of development - pushing through the nerves, doubts, and 'it’s not good enough' voices to finally put it out into the world. I also met with a potential business partner, attended an incredible women-in-business event, my TikTok following keeps growing, and I just signed with a company to build my website, funnel, and brand. So many exciting things are unfolding at once!"

RACHEL

"After a few years of isolation and rebuilding, I’ve been intentionally stepping back into alignment with my CEO self - and it’s paying off. I’m hitting the first income milestone I set for myself and already preparing for the next goal. It feels incredible to see the inner work and intentional shifts start translating into real results."

REBECCA

"I finally have my website up, clear, and running - and I’ve found my core audience! I got the courage to create and host my own public event on Zoom, The Zohra Method, where I share my story and the tools that keep my spirit strong. I announced it on my website and socials without hesitation - that’s a huge win for me.

I’m now consistently creating content instead of just watching others do it, and even while balancing a part-time job and rehabilitation, I’m excited for what’s ahead. I feel at peace being on my own, proud of how far I’ve come, and confident that every ‘no’ or setback is part of the process from amateurpreneur to big-ass boss entrepreneur. I’m focused, aligned, and ready for what’s next. 🙌🏽🔥"

ROBYN

"Since joining Tier 2, everything has shifted - personally, professionally, and energetically. I burned down the business that no longer fit and built the one I actually want. I signed a dream client and landed a 5-figure ghostwriting deal, got booked on three podcasts in two weeks, confirmed multiple article features, and was invited to speak at an event this November.

I’m writing more than ever - 25+ new pages in my client’s book, four personal book projects in motion, and new discovery calls landing weekly. My calendar is full, but for the first time, there’s zero panic - just calm confidence.

Beyond business, the transformations have been just as real: I’m off pain meds for the first time in 11 years, sleeping through the night, honoring my body, and truly living in my worth. I’ve bought new clothes, done a photoshoot, and let myself enjoy life again.

This has been my biggest year of internal growth - and I know it’s setting me up for the external expansion that’s already unfolding. I’m grateful every single day for this space, the support, and the steady upgrades that stick."

SARAH

"Over the past few months, everything has started to align - in both life and business. I finally cleared the energetic block that had been holding me back for years by shifting my storage situation, trusting my intuition, and taking aligned action. Within hours, the Universe responded: I attracted a new equine healing client and made triple what I had just invested.

Inside The Upgrade, I’ve gained so much clarity through the Zone of Genius and Queen Bee Role exercises. I now know exactly where my strengths, passions, and purpose overlap - equine healing, multidimensional energy work, and teaching - and I’m building my business around that. I’ve begun creating educational content like “5 Signs Your Horse Is Asking for Deeper Healing,” and I’m starting to get recognized on TikTok, with that momentum now flowing over to Instagram.

It feels incredible to see my path taking shape, my audience growing, and my confidence returning. For the first time, I’m not forcing things - I’m in flow, grounded, and truly walking the aligned path I was meant to."

SHIFFY

"I just finished Phase 2 and WOW - what a transformation! I’ve released my imposter syndrome and finally stepped into my business like the CEO I am. Until now, I only saw myself as a fractional COO, but through this work, I completely restructured my business to help small business owners systemize and automate their operations.

Upgrading my identity has changed everything - I’m showing up more powerfully for myself, my kids, and my clients. I’m deeply passionate about helping entrepreneurs scale their vision through systems and automation, and now that I’ve unleashed my full CEO self, I know I’ll be able to impact even more people. Because nothing is more liberating than having a business that doesn’t control you. Cheers to upgrading to my unapologetically successful self!"

SONJA

"I finally shifted my massive visibility wound and posted my first reel - Margot style - using the AIDA formula from Phase 2! I even shared it on my personal Facebook, where I’ve always hidden from family I’m no contact with. That was huge for me.

And now, I’m launching my soul’s calling - The Self Mastery Series - on the new moon. After years in sales and advertising, building 6- and 7-figure businesses for others, I’ve finally built something of my own that merges everything I’ve lived and learned: health, healing, tech, and transformation.

I’ve healed myself off ten medications, escaped homelessness, trained in trauma and metaphysical healing, and built an empire behind the laptop. Bringing it all together into this next chapter feels like true self-mastery - and I couldn’t have done it without the shifts I’ve made here."

WHAT’S UP!

I'M MARGOT MILLER

As a therapeutic coach to female entrepreneurs and wantrepreneurs, I’ve learned that the secret to unapologetic success is an identity upgrade - because upgrading your identity means changing how you think and how you act. It means developing a new mindset and a new skillset.

With a Bachelor’s in Psychology, a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy, 22 coaching certifications, qualifications in ThetaHealing® and hypnotherapy, and ongoing PhD studies in Business Psychology - it’s safe to say I know my stuff.

During my studies, I developed The Identity Upgrade System® - a proprietary method designed to help you become the kind of woman who gets the kind of results she wants. This system is taught right here, inside this membership, making the process both affordable and accessible to most.

With 17+ years of experience, I’ve impacted over 50,000 individuals across industries including entertainment and politics. My methods have transformed the lives of celebrities - from actors to comedians - as well as the girls next door. My work has reached over 100 million views online and built a trusted global community of nearly 600,000.

I’ve been honored with five Stevie Awards, including:

  • 🏆 Best Business Influencer of the Year

    🏆 Most Innovative TikTok Channel

    🏆 Most Innovative Instagram Feed by or for Women

    🏆 Thought Leader of the Year - Consumer Services

    🏆 Achievement in Diversity & Inclusion

But more than the accolades, what drives me is seeing women shed the roles they were cast in - and step into the identity they were born for.

Now, it’s your turn.

WHY THIS

+ WHY NOW?

For years, I struggled to figure out who I was - never mind what I was here to do.
Chronic illness, toxic relationships, and addiction kept me trapped in survival mode, disconnected from my authentic self and unsure of my purpose.

When I finally reconnected with the truth of who I was, everything began to change. I had a business idea and even signed a few clients through word of mouth - but I didn’t know how to scale what I’d started. I lacked the CEO mindset and skillset I needed to succeed, and for a long time, I stayed stuck there too.

Eventually, I cracked the code. I blew up my business, grew my followers and my dollars, and built a brand that’s visible AF - in magazines, on billboards, and across every platform. But the real win? I did it without burning out. I stopped sacrificing health for wealth or love for work. I built the systems, structures, and teams that allow me to run a freedom-based business and live a life that’s genuinely fulfilling.

Today, I live in my dream home, drive my dream car, and have a circle of girlfriends who lift me higher, and I date high-value men only. Now, I’m here to show you that it doesn’t have to take as long or be as hard as it was for me.

Inside The Upgrade, I teach the exact tools and techniques that helped me go from hiding in the shadows - scared to be seen - to building a magnetic, wildly successful brand that shines on every stage.

IF YOU WANT TO:

  • Create products and services that help you profit from the purpose you were put on this planet to pursue
  • Make more money than you ever have before - because the universe wants to reward you for the difference you’re making in the world
  • Show up on social media confidently and consistently to build a community of dream clients who can’t wait to work with yo
  • Attract opportunities to share your message as a thought leader - on podcasts, panels, and maybe even the TEDx stage
  • Become a household name - getting featured in major publications, appearing on national television, and finally receiving recognition for all that you are and all that you do
  • Scale what you’ve started without sacrificing your health for your wealth or your love life for your work life - no trade-offs
  • Feel more satisfied and fulfilled than you thought was humanly possible - because you’re finally living life for you, not for everyone else

COMMUNITY LOVE

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PAY MONTHLY

$

111

PER MONTH
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  • Step-By-Step Course
  • Fully-Stocked Resource Library
  • Online Community
  • Monthly Coaching Call
JOIN MONTHLY >>

PAY ANNUALLY

$

1,111

BEST VALUE

PER YEAR
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  • Everything you get in Tier 1

PLUS

  • ~2 MONTHS FREE
JOIN ANNUALLY >>

PEEK INSIDE THE PROGRAM

When you join the membership, you'll be instantly directed to our user-friendly portal, where the course, content, coaching, and community are all housed in one place. Accessible on both desktop and mobile devices, including iOS and Android, the platform ensures you can engage with the materials and interact with the other members anytime, anywhere - yep, even when you’re on your hot girl walk!

WHAT YOU RECEIVE:

A STEP-BY-STEP COURSE

Unlock access to an exclusive course, The Identity Upgrade System®, where you’ll learn my full proprietary framework for unapologetic success. Module-by-module, lesson-by-lesson, it guides you through the three phases of self and shows you how to shift your identity so you can start creating the results you desire and deserve.

A FULLY-STOCKED RESOURCE LIBRARY

Benefit from a resource library fully stocked with guided meditations, journaling prompts, video workshops, fillable workbooks, cheat sheets, checklists, and more to help you implement and integrate all you learn. These are all immediately available upon sign-up, and you'll receive new content drops month after month.

A PRIVATE COMMUNITY

Get 24/7 support from a private community of like-minded women right inside the membership. Inside, you’ll find dedicated circles for introductions, celebrations, suggestions, and support with every phase of the course and content. You’ll also have direct access to my team (including my right hand!) plus a dedicated Help Desk where we handle customer service with love.

A MONTHLY COACHING CALL

Participate in monthly group calls where you’ll have the opportunity to sit in the hot seat and receive personalized mindset and skillset coaching from me, Margot Miller. Whether you need help shifting a belief or tightening your business strategy, I’ve got you. All calls are recorded and uploaded to the membership platform, so you’ll never miss a breakthrough.

COMMUNITY LOVE

TAKE A PEEK INTO OUR MEMBERS’ EXPERIENCES:

PAY A LITTLE.

GET A LOT.

PAY MONTHLY

$

111

PER MONTH
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  • Step-By-Step Course
  • Fully-Stocked Resource Library
  • Online Community
  • Monthly Coaching Call
JOIN MONTHLY >>

PAY ANNUALLY

$

1,111

BEST VALUE

PER YEAR
cancel anytime

  • Everything you get in Tier 1

PLUS

  • ~2 MONTHS FREE
JOIN ANNUALLY >>

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

+ WHO IS THIS MEMBERSHIP FOR, EXACTLY?

The Upgrade is for women who are building a business - or thinking about starting one - who know they need to become a different version of themselves to get the results they want. You understand that the way you’re thinking and the actions you’re taking right now aren’t a match for the income and impact you envision for your future, and you’re looking for support to facilitate an identity upgrade. Inside this membership, you’ll develop the entrepreneurial mindset and business skillset required to quantum leap your results.

+ I’M A MAN. CAN I JOIN THE MEMBERSHIP?

No. The Upgrade is a women-only membership - exclusively for those who identify as female. We created this as a safe, supportive environment for women to do deep mindset, energetic, and business work alongside others with shared life experiences. Please respect the boundaries of this container by not attempting to join.

If you join and do not meet the demographic criteria, your access will be revoked immediately and no refund will be issued.

+ MY BUSINESS IS SMALL (OR ONLY AN IDEA). IS THIS STILL RIGHT FOR ME?

Absolutely. The Upgrade is a mindset and skillset membership for women at all levels of business - whether you're looking to start or scale. In Phase 2, where we focus on your CEO Self, we cover everything you need to build a business from the ground up: from purpose and problem to product, pricing, positioning, and promotion. You’ll learn the strategies and tactics to succeed - whether you're launching your first offer or optimising what you already have to create more freedom.

+ I HAVEN’T FOUND MY PURPOSE YET. IS IT STILL A FIT?

Yes. The Upgrade is especially suited for women who know they’re meant for something bigger and better - but haven’t figured out exactly what that looks like yet. Most people don’t know what they want when they’re still bound by the expectations and obligations of their family, culture, and society. That’s where The Upgrade comes in. It helps you cut through conditioning so you can figure out what your calling actually is - and start cashing in on it. I didn’t instantly know my vision or mission either. I had to fuck around and find out. Inside The Upgrade, I lift the lid on all the ways to fast-track purpose-finding - from the methodological to the magical.

+ HOW DO YOU KNOW THE IDENTITY UPGRADE SYSTEM® WORKS?

The Identity Upgrade System® has been tried, tested, and proven effective - on me and thousands of clients. Using it, I 200x’d my income in 3 months, won multiple awards, and helped others achieve extraordinary results: from landing major TV roles and hitting social milestones, to building profitable businesses that scale to 6 and 7 figures. It works because it addresses both levers that matter - who you are and what you do.

+ WHAT DO I ACTUALLY RECEIVE?

When you join The Upgrade, you get immediate access to:

  1. The Identity Upgrade System® Course - a comprehensive program teaching my full framework for shifting into your unapologetic success identity.

  2. Resource Library - meditations, workshops, templates, and tools to support your growth.

  3. Monthly Coaching Call with Margot - sit in the hot seat for personalised mindset and skillset coaching.

  4. Private Community - spaces for connection, celebration, and support, plus access to my team. 

 

+ IS THIS A GROUP COACHING PROGRAM?

Not quite. Most group programs run for a fixed period. The Upgrade is a rolling monthly membership - so you can join anytime and stay as long as you like. That said, monthly group coaching calls are part of your membership. You’ll have the chance to sit in the hot seat and receive personalised coaching from me on mindset, strategy, or anything in between.

+ WILL THERE BE ANY OPPORTUNITY TO WORK WITH YOU 1:1 IN HERE?

You’ll have the chance to be hot-seat coached by me during a group call - but 1:1 coaching is not included in the membership. If you’d like focused, private mentorship, you can explore my 1:1 container, Next Level, or for an intimate group experience, you can apply for my mastermind, Inner Circle.

+ WHEN WILL THE LIVE CALLS BE HELD?

Live calls are held on the second Monday of every month at  11 AM Pacific Time. All calls are recorded and uploaded to the membership platform so you can catch the replays whenever you like.

+ IS THE COURSE AVAILABLE TO BUY ANYWHERE ELSE?

No. The Identity Upgrade System® course is exclusive to members of The Upgrade.

+ ARE THE RESOURCES DRIP-FED OR ARE THEY ALL AVAILABLE AT ONCE?

Everything is available as soon as you join - no drip, no waiting. And to keep things fresh, new resources are added monthly, so the longer you stay, the more you get. 

+ CAN I CONNECT WITH THE COMMUNITY OFFLINE AS WELL AS ONLINE?

Yes. The community primarily lives online inside the membership, but we host occasional optional in-person meetups and events for members who want to deepen the experience.

+ CAN I CANCEL AT ANY TIME?

Yes. It’s month-to-month. You’re billed on the same date each cycle and you keep access for the full duration of your current billing period. If you cancel and return later, you’ll rejoin at the current advertised rate.

+ DO YOU OFFER REFUNDS IF I AM NOT SATISFIED WITH MY EXPERIENCE?

No - due to the digital and downloadable nature of this membership, all sales are final and refunds will not be issued. You can cancel future billing at any time.

+ I AM LGBTQIA+, NEURODIVERSE, DISABLED, OR BIPOC. AM I STILL WELCOME HERE?

Absolutely. The Upgrade was created to be a safe, affirming space for all women - whether you’re LGBTQIA+, neurodiverse, disabled, BIPOC, or otherwise underrepresented in the business world. You never have to hide or mask who you are to belong here.

+ I HAVE LEARNING DIFFICULTIES OR DISABILITIES. IS THIS ACCOMMODATED FOR?

Yes. Accessibility is built into everything we do. We provide captions, transcripts, and downloadable resources and design with diverse learning needs in mind so you can fully participate in the content, coaching, and community.

+ I CAN’T AFFORD TO JOIN THE UPGRADE. DO YOU OFFER SCHOLARSHIPS OR DISCOUNTS?

We occasionally open limited scholarship spots and run special promotions. Join the waitlist and our email community to be first to know when applications or offers open. We do not offer annual plans at this time - all memberships are monthly and cancel anytime.